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Don’t Compromise On The Follow-Through

Dec 5, 2019 | Newsletter

Like many self-starters, I have not historically been a great finisher.

I can whip out new ideas and plan out new projects with the best of them. But seeing it to completion? Not so much.

It’s one of my own personal forms of self-sabotage and something that I’ve started to become really mindful about this year. Specifically, I’m looking at my patterns and teaching myself to recognize those first small indications that I’m starting to back out of my plan.

There are all sorts of reasons I might start backing out: things aren’t going the way I want them to, I’m not getting the results I expected, the project is getting more challenging, I’ve left the fun phase and entered the hard work phase, etc…

But another reason I start to back out of my plans is my mental health.

If I’m in a period of high anxiety or dipping into a depressive episode, I’m apt to quit or compromise any projects I’m in the midst of.

I’ve always justified this by thinking that I was giving myself space, time, and rest.

And while that is true and absolutely not a bad thing on its own, I started to wonder if I was giving myself that space, time, and rest in a way that actually benefitted me…

…or whether my compromise was just some temporary relief that would lead to greater pain later on down the line.

In other words, is there something else I could compromise on instead of always letting myself off the hook when it comes to following through on important projects?

Could I make space, time, and rest by backing away from less consequential activities?

Over the last few weeks, I’ve gotten the chance to put this question into practice.

I’ve been feeling downright rotten–low energy, trouble sleeping, relentless sadness, physical pain–all the symptoms I am so familiar with after 25+ years of living with depression.

I started to feel like I couldn’t possibly follow through on some of my most important end-of-year projects. I started to entertain thoughts that my effort had been “good enough” and chiding myself with “really, what did I expect?”

No. No. No. Not again.

What could I compromise on that would give me space, time, and rest–but would also allow me to follow through on the most important stuff?

Here’s what I came up with:

  • I didn’t need to be nearly as responsive to random messages or emails as I had endeavored to be throughout the year
  • I could let my team handle every possible little thing that they could without much interference or input from me
  • I could lean on work that was already done (our podcast) instead of feeling like I always had to be in creative mode
  • I could shut off my alarms and let myself sleep in
  • I didn’t need to stick with my training program or run all the miles as long as I kept doing what felt good
  • I could choose easy ways to feed myself–even if that meant getting takeout more often

That all allowed me to continue to craft personal replies and do one-on-one calls with people interested in our 2020 mastermind groups. It allowed me to show up big-time for a workshop I felt passionately about (we’re doing an encore next Tuesday, by the way).

It allowed me to follow through on what’s important.

And, even though it’s been hard, I know that this is the best way I can take care of myself as a business owner right now. I can choose to compromise on less consequential activities so that I don’t have to compromise on what really matters in the long-term.

This month on the What Works podcast and inside The What Works Network, we’re taking a look at what it means to design a business that lets you take better care of you.

While that might conjure images of long vacations and flexible schedules, it’s not all easy or fun stuff. A lot of times, taking care of yourself means making tough choices, examining your patterns, and intentionally structuring your business for maximum personal impact.

With gratitude,

Tara McMullin
Founder, What Works

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👓 Click here to read.

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👓 Click here to read.

DO THIS BEFORE YOU SET YOUR GOALS FOR 2020

I’ve been hearing from a bunch of folks that they’ve noticed how arbitrary their goal-setting is. They’re looking for something more intentional, meaningful, and purpose-driven. Arbitrary goal-setting has definitely gotten me way off course in the past and that led me to looking for a different way. My solution? Crafting commitments before I set any goals. I’m doing a live encore of the workshop I did last month called The Commitment Blueprint. I’d love to see you there!

👓 Click here to register.

Host of What Works

Tara is a podcaster, small business community leader, strategist, and speaker. She’s been helping small business owners build stronger businesses for over a decade.  

Tara McMullin, What Works Weekly Newsletter

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